“Blue is used to symbolize piety and sincerity in heraldry. The color blue in many cultures is significant in religious beliefs, brings peace, or is believed to keep the bad spirits away. In Iran, blue is the color of mourning while in the West the something blue bridal tradition represents love.”
“The color red can represent hatred, anger, warning or death. It can symbolize death because red is the color of blood. Blood red may also symbolize life’s blood. Because red is the color of blood, it is most frequently used as the color of the heart.”
“The red color signals physical movement and gives us vitality. It is the color of sexuality and it can stimulate deep and intimate passion. Love and sex on the positive side, or revenge and anger on the negative side. Red is often used to express love on Valentine’s Day, but actually red relates more to sexuality and desire, than to love”
“”blue-sky definition: 1. using the imagination to think of ideas that do not yet have practical uses or make money: 2. ways of thinking about a subject or dealing with a problem that are new and original but may not always be practical: “
As you could see there are different connotations of the meaning red and blue and just because you might appreciate nature and like the sky you could get killed. Just because you are wearing red for love you could get killed or maybe it is a gang thing, but who truly knows the perceptions of others. Nobody says what they think and when they do it is blown out of proportion.
Another example a guy not saying something at the bar behind a man and a woman. They will view that person as a creep when they may feel socially awkward in the situation and their perception is that they don’t belong there. Bottom line is how do we know if no one knows what is going on until it happens. and then we are confused on what is going on. Women don’t come out and tell the guy and when they do and they tell all that is on their mind and let their stress live we perceive that person as crazy when in reality it is a misperception and anger unfolds because we offend one another. Nobody knows what the problems of perception are. Because they have a perception of one person in one way and the other and because of Facebook and Youtube and TV people especially the one I cared about the perception destroyed her and me. And I wanted to protect them but I’m not sure I did I didn’t here from them and don’t know where they are She is not crazy and I am not crazy that is the perception of everyone. We are trying to live but Facebook and Youtube tell us our thoughts everyday and manipulate us by their algorithms of what we watch I miss the days where there was no selection and we could choose what we want. or with Facebook when we truly saw posts like I’m at a bar come and see me to hang out and maybe I am to blame for this to. Years ago I thought it would be a good platform to write and I wrote many with talents did. Now it is a shit show of people openning their mouth and they don’t say it and even worse they don’t tell the person who they write about or say it about.
Just by my non verbal reaction in situations I think now that I could destroy a situation even my words even if I am passionate about it and is all about the tone its read or the tone of my non verbal reaction. And this is with voice to. Many will get misperception about them and especially if they have a hearing problem.
Bottomline our perception can ruin us in situations and make judgements about others that may destroy them and they don’t even know the truth they would just have assumption. The truth is we both are in pain leave it like that and lets move on from it. I commited something stupid and went on the advice that someone tell me I wasn’t even going to post the paintings I went on bad advice and my ego got the best of me. And shoulld I find love again I will cherish it. As for her don’t wish her pain she has had enough. That is why I am posting this I wish her happiness wherever she is knowing I cherished every moment even if I was going through mental anguish along the way. Thank You for everything you were my teacher. I can’t be mad at you any more. I hope I was yours we learn from another. I will forever be her protector even if I am not in the picture anymore and our relationship is not around anymore.
Perception causes us damage when we say something that is why I have a new focus in this blog explaining Perception especially my perception it helps I will talk to people and find out. I will understand this world better I think we all do.
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